In short
To fit in here, you need to accept that Tossa de Mar is Catalan first. While Spanish is widely spoken, especially with tourists, everyday life in the town hall, shops and among neighbours runs in Catalan. Start with basic Catalan phrases, attend the Friday market and the summer medieval fair, and ask at the town hall about local groups. A car is essential for reaching the nearest larger towns, Lloret de Mar (12 km) or Girona (45 km).
Quick facts
- Catalan is co-official with Spanish and is the everyday language of local offices and shops in Tossa de Mar.
- Private Spanish and Catalan courses for beginners are offered through the TossaInfo network, including online lessons.
- The main summer event is the medieval fair in the old town square, with sardana dancing.
- The Ajuntament de Tossa de Mar is the first point of contact for local associations and volunteering.
- Newcomers often find that Catalan, not Spanish, is the default in local offices, so learning it is a key step.
For British buyers and residents settling in Tossa de Mar, the one thing to know is that this is Catalonia. Catalan is the everyday language of local life, and while Spanish is widely spoken, making an effort with Catalan opens doors in a close-knit town of 6,347 residents (INE, 2025).
Language
Catalan is co-official with Spanish and is the default in the town hall, local shops and among neighbours. As one local guide puts it, "Tossa de Mar is not Spain but Catalonia." Locals will switch to Spanish for tourists, but their native tongue is Catalan. It is not a dialect of Spanish; it is a distinct Romance language with its own literature, television and radio. In Tossa, you will also hear the local fishermen's dialect, which differs from standard Catalan.
Learning Spanish Locally
There is no state-run EOI (Escola Oficial d'Idiomes) in Tossa de Mar itself. For structured classes, private tuition is available through the TossaInfo network, which has offered Spanish and Catalan courses for beginners since 2007, including online options. This is a good starting point for those who want to go beyond "hola". For official qualifications, you would need to travel to Girona or Blanes, where the nearest EOI centres are located.
Fiestas and the Local Calendar
The Friday morning market is a weekly fixture where you will meet locals. Every summer, the medieval fair fills the old town square, complete with sardana dancing – the traditional Catalan circle dance. This is the town's main community event, drawing residents and visitors alike. The summer season brings a lively atmosphere, but things quieten down significantly from October.
Clubs, Associations and Volunteering
Specific expat clubs or volunteer groups are not listed in the official tourist materials, but the Ajuntament de Tossa de Mar (town hall) is the hub for local associations. The Friday market and summer fiestas are the easiest places to strike up conversations and learn about informal groups. For structured volunteering, the town hall can point you towards local charities, cultural associations or the municipal museum.
Local Customs and Timing
The town is close-knit; you will soon recognise faces at the bakery or market. Locals swim and kayak from the coves even in February, so outdoor life is year-round. Don't call Catalan a dialect of Spanish – it is a point of pride. Also, be aware that many restaurants and bars close from late October to Easter, so the rhythm of life is seasonal.
Barriers and First Steps
The main barrier is language: Catalan is the default in offices, so learning it is a key step. A car is essential for regular travel, as there is no train station; the nearest larger towns are Lloret de Mar (12 km south) and Girona (45 km inland). While some tourist guides cite a population of around 5,000, INE's 2025 figure is 6,347. First steps: learn basic Catalan phrases, attend the Friday market, and ask at the town hall about local groups.
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Tossa de Mar rewards those who make an effort. The Catalan language is the biggest hurdle, but also the biggest gateway to genuine integration. If you are happy to learn a few phrases and accept a slower, seasonal rhythm, you will find a welcoming community. It suits people who want a real local life, not just a holiday home. If you prefer English-only expat bubbles, this is not the place.
Sources
- Tossa de Mar - Wikipedia (Wikipedia)
- Learn Languages in Tossa de Mar (TossaInfo)
- The Catalan language - Tossa de Mar entdecken (TossaInfo)
- Living in Tossa de Mar: cost of living and property for sale — idealista/news (idealista/news)
- First Time in Tossa de Mar: Complete Guide (2026) (LetsHolidays)
- Discovering Tossa de Mar and the Mediterranean Sea (TossaInfo)
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